Fine, we have all watched that myth - that "nice guys" lose out and the 'bad boys" attract women - but I don't think it is always true.
At least I don't think it has anything to do with being a bad boy compared to a nice guy.
I believe there are other personality factors involved that maybe bad boys and nice guys have that are the identifying qualities of attraction.
Bad boys tend to be less shy, but at the same time they are more confident in general than nice guys. I feel that it would be these qualities that are attracting a woman not the aspect that a guy is bad.
I personally do not use the "bad boy" technique when attracting women, I am always a perfect gentleman. Nevertheless, I am not an easy catch and women can tell that immediately when talking to me. I am a little reserved, I don't compliment women when I first meet them or tell them how attractive they are, and most women don't have a hint as to whether I am fascinated with them or just being good.
That is what sets me away from a "nice guy". Women see me as a rightful gentleman but haven't a clue if I like them or not. Women -especially very attractive women - like that. They are sick and tired of talking to men who fawn all over them.
Girls like guys who are alluring and unique. Attractive girls don't find gents who tell them how beautiful they are to be special. But a guy who has an enjoyable conversation with them without saying a word about their good looks verbally or non-verbally - now that is both interesting and unique to a beautiful girl.
Also keep in mind that women have different qualities. And what one thinks is interesting and unique changes from personality to personality. A not-so-good-looking lady may find it totally interesting and unique to be told how attractive she is by a man. A woman who grows up in a community of perfect gentlemen, might very well see a guy who talks a little awful and naughty to be interesting and different. A woman who knows nothing but crude and ignorant men, would find a gentlemen to be a rare interesting and unique find.
You see irrespective of what you are like there is someone for you. But you have to identify who that someone would be and then try to build up a scenario on how you would meet persons like that. So regardless of if you are a bad guy or a nice guy, put yourself in a situation where you are interesting and unique to the women you meet and you will be victorious.
One of the hardest things to learn in life is that irrespective of what you are like there is definitely someone who is perfectly suitable to you. Even if you are dull there are women who are absolutely compatible with that. Not every one desires to meet and hook up with the life of the party.
The problem is people who don't accept themselves for who they are, attempt to act differently and they are not being real, so they don't entice anyone. Now if you just admit yourself for who you are and act the way you actually are, you will realize that there are people who will choose you for who you are. So don't worry about whether you are dull or not, just be yourself. Sooner or later you will find a girl who will accept you for who you are.
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